Adualts mutual chat

If he’s calling to discuss problems all the time, you’re just a friend, but if he just wants to talk about what you’re up to and what he’s up to without asking anything of you or getting into a phone therapy session, he’s probably into you.

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If he thinks you deserve to be treated like a queen, there’s a pretty good chance your affection is reciprocated.

He doesn’t have to lavish you with expensive gifts of gold and diamonds to let his intentions be known.

More than that though, don’t assume he isn’t into you if he doesn’t dress up. This more refers to a guy that normally takes a more relaxed approach to their appearance who suddenly seems to be paying a little more attention to it.

If he’s brushing his hair when he’s more of a messy hair kinda guy there’s a good chance he’s into you. Does the object of your affection suddenly want to know more about music? If he’s brushing up on the bands you’re interested in (the same can be said for movies, books, sports etc), he wants to have something he can talk to you about.

Vacation, birthday or Christmas presents don’t count unless it’s something way out of the ordinary that no guy would give a girl he thinks of as ‘just a friend’. Don’t take a guy grabbing your caboose as a sign he wants to settle down with you. If the object of your affection’s content with putting his arm around you, touching your hands and maybe even brushing your hair out of your face, there is a very good chance that he likes you in more than a friendly sort of way.

If he’s grabbing your bum but you’re not sure he’s interested in you in a romantic way, it’s pretty safe to assume he wanted to do something with you, but that likely doesn’t include a wedding ring or anything even close to that. We’re not talking suits and ties here, ladies – at least not exclusively. He didn’t even wear a suit to our wedding and I love that about him.

Perhaps he just notices that you smile a particular way when you find something funny that’s different from the way you smile when you’re just being polite.

He might notice the little subtle differences in your mood – when you’re happy instead of just okay or when you’re feeling a little under the weather.

Heck, I don’t know most of you reading this, and I’m upset for you.

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