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Women are easily scared away online, so you should avoid saying anything remotely controversial or predatory.Stick to neutral subjects — like mentioning a common ground you share based on something you read in her profile.

The marketplace metaphor may also resonate with participants' conceptual orientation towards the process of finding a romantic partner.

Most sites allow members to upload photos or videos of themselves and browse the photos and videos of others.

But obviously if she’s on the site too, you’re both in the same boat.

By pointing out your hesitations, she’s bound to assume you’re an insecure person. If you feel so inclined to explain yourself, wait to do it when you’ve met in person — and be confident about your reasons for joining.

If you really are going away, wait until you get back to ask her out.

A good rule of thumb: if you aren’t available for a date within 7 days of sending the message, don’t send it.

A lot of women are looking for something serious and have no interest in participating in your immature wager with friends. He refused to accept it and continued to message me listing all the reasons why we’d be great together.” — Ashley, 30 The problem..the solution: No matter how strongly you feel about your potential with a woman you meet online, accept the break-up gracefully.

There’s obviously a reason she didn’t think it would work out, so why keep trying to pursue someone who is clearly not interested in you?

NOT-SO-SMOOTH OPERATOR The scenario: “I recently received a message that said, ‘Damn you’re a pretty white girl, you into muscular black men?

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