Grasshopper and dating someone younger

If you’re thinking about dating a younger man, congratulations.

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This is great if you wind up marrying him and sometimes disappointing if you mold him into an amazing guy and some other girl winds up with him! It's a fact, when you hang out with younger people, your younger side comes out.

After all, you don't want to seem like an old fuddy-duddy.

When you date someone who is substantially different in age to you, sometimes you will find that he won't understand some cultural references you make, and vice versa. When you are dating someone younger, a lot of times, his friends could get on your nerves because they seem like children to you.

For example, if you were born in 1980, a guy who was born in 1990 is likely to miss any references you make to a Walkman, M. Perhaps your guy is more mature, but what about his friends?

A lot of times when you are dating, you are dating the guy and all of his baggage, i.e.

his preconceived notions about women and relationships that he concluded from past experiences.

Guys tend to mature more slowly than women and at an older age.

If you catch a guy during his formative years, you can influence the man he will become.

Be ready to do the “unexpected date,” go to the novel location, and experience the unknown. Be willing to let go of what you know, and enter the new. It sounds empowering, and women are loving the comparison. The only thing a secure established woman controls, is her own life. As an older woman, you’ve had the added years of self-reflection to have learned your truth, and live authentically. Resist the temptation to mold him into the rigid dating versions of the past. By assisting each other and working together, you can create the version of dating/relationship that works best for both of you. In evolving partnership models, two people function as one unit, with equal input and joint control. From my years of research, this type of partnership is where the real magic happens. He’s probably had more sex than you have While you might think you’re the one with all the experience, here’s where the tables often turn.

You’ve become less reactive (what men call “crazy”), taking on life with a greater perspective while taking yourself less seriously. Just because he’s young, doesn’t mean he’s sexually naïve. Younger generations have grown up with a more open attitude toward sexuality. The oldest man I’ve ever dated was still 12 years younger than myself. But at 80, I probably won’t feel like writing about it.

If you are older, he might expect for you to be the grown-up, as in be the one who cleans up, makes sure not to drink too much, always makes the reservations, etc.

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